August 8th is Dying to Know Day, a day that encourages us to talk about something many of us avoid. What happens when we die? It’s not an easy topic, but having these conversations with your family can make a huge difference when the time comes.
At Brian Walsh Funerals, we’ve seen it time and time again families coming in after the death of a loved one, completely unsure of what their loved one would have wanted. This can cause a lot of stress and confusion during an already difficult time. On Dying to Know Day, we want to encourage you to take the first step and have that conversation now, before it’s too late.
Why Talking About Death is So Important
Talking about death can feel uncomfortable, but not knowing what someone wants when they’re gone can make things a whole lot harder for your family. We see families in distress all the time because they don’t know if their loved one wanted cremation or burial, or what kind of service they would have liked. This uncertainty can lead to extra stress, disagreements, and a lot of unnecessary heartache.
Having a chat with your family about your final wishes doesn’t just help your loved ones it helps you. It gives you peace of mind knowing that when the time comes, your wishes will be respected, and your family won’t have to guess.
How to Start the Conversation
Starting the conversation about your final wishes doesn’t have to be awkward. Here are some simple steps to get started: Pick a Good Time,
Wait for a relaxed moment, maybe during a family dinner or weekend catch-up. Just pick a time when everyone is in a good mood and can talk openly.
Be Honest
Tell your family you want to make sure they know what you want when you’re gone. It doesn’t have to be heavy, just let them know you’re planning ahead so they don’t have to worry later.
Start Small
You don’t have to cover everything all at once. Start with one thing—maybe whether you want cremation or burial, or where you’d like your service. It doesn’t need to be a big, long conversation.
Invite Questions
Encourage your family to ask questions or share their thoughts. It’s important to get everyone on the same page, and it will help ease their minds knowing your wishes.
Write It Down
Once you’ve talked about it, write down your wishes. Having it all documented ensures everything is clear when the time comes.
Why Pre-Planning Is a Good Idea
Pre-planning is all about making sure your wishes are known, but it also helps your family avoid stress. We’ve seen too many families who have no idea what their loved one would have wanted, and that can cause a lot of extra heartache. Pre-planning takes that burden off your family and gives them peace of mind, knowing they’re doing what you wanted.
At Brian Walsh Funerals, we’re here to help you with pre-planning. We’ll guide you through every step, making sure everything is taken care of, so your family doesn’t have to make difficult decisions during a tough time.
Take Action on Dying to Know Day
This Dying to Know Day, take a moment to start that important conversation with your loved ones. It’s an easy way to make things easier for your family down the road. If you’re ready to talk or want to learn more about pre-planning, give us a call or visit us today. We’re here to help.
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